Someday Never Comes
The approaching new year and that magical week between Christmas and New Years Day where the world slows down… for just a minute.
Time enough to catch your breath…
Time to reflect…
If you’re like the vast majority of people… and certainly the ones I work with in my coaching practice… its a time of remembering somedays.
All of the times in the last year that you wanted to make a change…but just didn’t.
Someday I’m going to work out….
Someday I’m going to visit that place on the earth that calls to me….
Someday I’m going to start that project…
Someday I’m going to call that person…
Someday I’m going to start that business… or make the improvements I know are needed to the one I already have…
Someday… when the stars align…and I’m in the perfect place at the perfect time and everything is perfect perfect perfect…then…. I’ll start.
Someday. Never. Comes.
Never.
It never came before. It’s not on its way now.
Big Buts
Typically…. This is the point in the conversation where the buts come….
But… this happened to me this year.
But….I’m waiting for this thing before…….sigh.
A mentor of mine once told me… “people who say but all the time usually have a big one!!”.
Ouch!!!
Are you one of the few who do vs. the many who talk?
Everyone wants to eat… nobody wants to hunt.
An Avalanche of Cliche’s
Take the proverbial first step. An object in motion stays in motion!!! That first step is the hardest and also the most important.
Don’t be in the same position 365 days from now… that you are today….waiting for someday.
Never leave the site of setting a goal… any goal…without doing SOMETHING…however small… towards it’s attainment.
And most importantly… don’t be afraid to ask for help!!!
There is a reason the highest performing people in the world…whether it be CEO’s or world class athletes… have coaches and consultants and mentors….
Wishing you an energizing…thought provoking… and change-ful 2023….
See you on the journey…
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